How often will he text if he likes you?
You should look for three to five messages a day, unless you strike up a conversation, then look for more. The most important thing to look out for is whether or not it seems like you're on his mind. Remember, these are simple guidelines, and there is no hard and fast rule. How often should he text me in the beginning? But I would say, that a guy should be reaching out about twice a day in the beginning.