Should I leave if he doesn't want to marry me?
“If your partner doesn't want to get married and you do, you should not necessarily leave,” says Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, a counselor and co-founder of the The Marriage Restoration Project. “Sometimes one partner feels pressured and is reluctant to commit.” But time can change this, Slatkin says. Should you leave him if he doesn't propose? When a man doesn't want to commit and you do, leave him alone. If he doesn't try to get you back with a proposal, don't waste your time.